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Love And Relationships: Men Really Are From Mars!

In this week’s Love Essentially, published two days ago in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press, I write about love and relationships, specifically how men and women differ in their views on the subject.   Men and Women – Polar Opposites When Talking Love and Relationships by Jackie Pilossoph Last Friday night, I had the pleasure of sitting … Read more

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How to Deal With “Her”: The Ex’s New Girlfriend

A DGS reader wrote the following, regarding her ex’s new girlfriend: My divorce was final 4 months ago and almost a year ago is when he told me he didn’t love me anymore after 24 years of marriage and 3 kids. After he told me he wanted out is when I started noticing signs of … Read more

Marital Advice: When Your Spouse’s Parent Dies

In this week’s Love Essentially, published yesterday in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press, I offer marital advice for that devastating time when people suffer the loss of a parent.    How to Help Your Spouse Grieve The Loss of a Parent  by Jackie Pilossoph Romantic relationships are so much easier when everything in life is going … Read more

Will My Marriage Last If There Are Big Cultural Differences?

In this week’s Love Essentially, I examine the question, “Will my marriage last if the couple has big cultural differences?”     Do Cultural Differences Affect The Odds of a Marriage Lasting? by Jackie Pilossoph I can’t wait to see “My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2,” the sequel to the 2002 hit, “My Big Fat Greek … Read more

Femilift: Aimed To Give Women Better Sex

When I first heard about Femilift, I rolled my eyes, thinking that it was superficial, maybe even silly. But after learning more about it and what it can do to improve a woman’s sex life — both married and divorced women, I don’t think it’s silly at all. In fact, I think it could be … Read more

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The Benefits of Going Back To Work After Divorce

Thinking of returning to work? I interviewed some working women (most are moms, too) about the benefits of going back to work after divorce and here is what they had to say!     Here are 10 benefits of going back to work after divorce, and why it could turn out to be the best … Read more

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50 Reasons You Should Exercise During Divorce

Have you been hitting the gym during your divorce? If not, what are you waiting for? Exercise during divorce is crucial in feeling your best in many ways, mostly emotional! During a divorce, there are good coping mechanisms, and not-so-good coping mechanisms. Some people use drugs and alcohol to cope, others use religion or therapy. … Read more

The Bachelor: I’ve Got Issues

If you happened to see last week’s episode of The Bachelor, read my Love Essentially column below, published yesterday in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press editions. See if you agree with my issues!   Is It Possible To Love Two People At Once?  by Jackie Pilossoph Is it really possible to be in love with two … Read more

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How Do You Know When You Are In Love?

How do you know when you are in love? It’s a question that at one time or another everyone has asked themselves and friends and family. The response is usually “You just know!” But I decided to dig a little deeper and ask some older guys (all married except for one), “How do you know … Read more

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Stay at Home Date Ideas for Couples That Are Inexpensive and Fun!

Planning a date takes effort. First you have to decide what you want to do. Eating dinner at a trendy restaurant, catching the new movie everyone’s talking about, seeing a concert, or going to a Bulls game are all great options, but there is a downside. Dates like these require planning in advance, a babysitter … Read more

Divorced Celebrities Who Bounced Back Stronger Than Ever

Divorced Celebrities Who Bounced Back Stronger Than Ever By Katie Ray from Canterbury Law Firm   It may be hard to believe when you are going through it, but divorce is not the end of the world. In fact, the experience can make a person stronger, wiser and so much happier in the long run. … Read more

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Want To Meet Single Men? Here’s A BIG Tip!

“How do I meet single men?” is probably one of the questions I get asked most by my readers. I’m not sure I have the answer, but I can offer a big tip I think will drastically increase the chances of getting more dates: PUT YOUR CELL PHONE AWAY! Let me explain. Recently, I was … Read more