3 Words For Those Who Have A Fear Of Dating


May 22nd, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

 I feel like I’ve gotten a lot of emails lately from readers who express a fear of dating after divorce. Having experienced it myself, I can say firsthand that I don't blame them! Dating after divorce is terrifying for anyone. Fear of dating, espe...

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How to Date After Divorce at 40: 11 Tips


May 11th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

As someone who dated from the time I was 16 until I got married at 35, and then dated again at 41 until I was 49, I have a lot to say on the subject of dating, both before and after divorce. In many ways, dating as a teenager isn't much different tha...

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8 Places to Meet Single People in the Suburbs And None are Bars!


May 6th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Almost every divorced man or woman I know has made a comment at one time or another about how difficult it is to meet single people in the suburbs. After all, it's easy to picture suburbia as a multitude of residential neighborhoods with tree lined s...

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15 Questions Men Have About Women And My Answers


April 12th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Last week, I called my friend to tell him I was going to be a few minutes late for our meeting because I wanted to squeeze in a manicure."Why do women get their nails done?" he asked. "I never understood that." That's when it hit me. Sometimes, men j...

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How Long Should You Casually Date Someone? Let’s Talk.


March 30th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

A Divorced Girl Smiling reader wrote this: I am recently divorced and not sure I want to get into another relationship right away, but don’t want to sleep around either. Is casual dating without sex even possible? And, how long should you casually ...

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