You Have A Right To Ask Questions To Your Cheating Spouse


May 22nd, 2019 . Anita Chlipala

You can’t shake the feelings once you’ve been cheated on. The disbelief; the shock; the devastation. The disorienting sensation that you don’t know what’s true—all compounded by a surreal realization that you don’t know who your cheating ...

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A Great Book For Couples: No Advice, Just Questions


May 19th, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

In this week's Love Essentially, I feature what I think is a great book for couples. It's meant to foster conversation and bring couples closer together. Here is the article: New relationship book is all questions, no advice by Jackie Pilossoph for...

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What Are “The Rules” When You Start Dating Again After Divorce?


May 2nd, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

This was posted on a group Facebook page: When you start dating again after divorce, what are the rules? I have no idea what the new normal is!   Her question made me think. Remember the self-help book “The Rules?” Officially titled, ...

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Think Men Over 50 Only Date Younger Women? Think Again.


April 23rd, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

I’m not sure why, but so many women I know who are dating over 50 assume that men our age--men over 50 only date younger women. While I do think there are some men in their fifties who prefer to date women in their thirties or forties, I believe th...

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The Benefits of Taking Ownership Of Your Emotions


April 20th, 2019 . Lisa Kaplin

A common refrain of toddlers and adults alike is, “You made me so angry.” Or “You made me so sad.” Or “Because you acted that way, you made me act this way back to you.” It’s a version of, “The devil made me do it.” It’s a complet...

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