Going Through A Divorce? 21 Things You Shouldn’t Give a F*** About


June 26th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

While I was going through a divorce several years ago, life felt like a rollercoaster for awhile. At the beginning, when I was first separated, most days seemed like the sky was falling. Between my young  kids, attorney's fees, financial concerns, f...

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The Emotional Stages of Divorce Are Like A Roller Coaster Ride


June 8th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

 When I was going through my divorce, everyone said "This must be such a sad time for you." But actually, even more that sadness, what I remember about that time 12 summers ago was that it felt like a roller coaster of highs and lows. I'm talking ab...

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Going Through An Unfair Divorce?


May 27th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Ever have one of those days when everything seems totally unfair? Of course you have if you are going through a divorce, especially an unfair divorce.   I talked to a woman recently who has a full time job and is struggling to pay her bill...

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One Word That Will Prevent You From Getting Over A Divorce


February 8th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Getting over a divorce isn't easy. I know that firsthand. But there's one word that really, really, really slows down the process of moving on: Regret.   "He wouldn't have cheated if I was a better wife." "I never should have taken that ...

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Is Drinking Wine Every Night During Divorce A Bad Thing?


February 1st, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

I thought it was important to write about an issue that is oftentimes brushed under the rug, but extremely important, especially during divorce. I’m talking about drinking wine every night to soothe anxiety about divorce and just relax. I did it. ...

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