Advice for “My Ex and My Best Friend Are Dating!”


June 2nd, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Advice for a woman who wrote to tell me, “My ex and my best friend are dating:” As I just passed the one-year anniversary of my divorce, I've learned that what many had suggested at the time of my separation is most likely true: my ex and my...

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Going Through An Unfair Divorce?


May 27th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Ever have one of those days when everything seems totally unfair? Of course you have if you are going through a divorce, especially an unfair divorce.   I talked to a woman recently who has a full time job and is struggling to pay her bill...

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10 People Who Might Not Like You When You Get Divorced


May 12th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Don’t you feel like when you get divorced, there are two camps, and most people feel like they need to be in one? There are a few people who try to stay neutral, but then it's just awkward.   With the camps come newly formed rivalries, w...

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When Should You Get A Divorce? Answers To Your Questions


April 28th, 2020 . Tiffany M. Hughes

Throughout my career, which spans almost ten years, a question I am often asked is “When should you get a divorce?” That might mean, “When is the right time to get a divorce?” or “At what point does it make sense to get a divorce?,” in ot...

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How To Move On After Divorce As A Woman–Not A Wife


March 26th, 2020 . Lisa Kaplin

Many people wonder how to move on after divorce as a woman. What I mean by that is, perhaps a woman's life was defined as being a wife. That was her identity. Now she feels lost. This reader is in that situation: I’m struggling with a lot of con...

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