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Carrie Bradshaw’s Getting Divorced?! My Review of The New HBO Series “Divorce”

A Look at The New HBO Series “Divorce,” Starring Sarah Jessica Parker by Jackie Pilossoph for ESME Is it possible to have a mentor who is a fictional character? If so, Carrie Bradshaw was mine. Happy, fun, brave, and kind, Bradshaw had a way of storytelling in the former HBO series Sex and the City … Read more

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Confessions: Not Just For God But For Your Marriage Or Even Your Divorce

Today is Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the year for Jewish people. Known as the day of atonement, it is the day to ask God for forgiveness for all your sins. In other words, it is a time for confessions. It is a solemn day, yet there is joy in it because Jews believe … Read more

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How Do You Move On After Divorce As A Man? Admit, Accept and Appreciate

From a divorced guy: I just don’t know anymore.  Everything I had worked to build for over twenty years–retirements, my house, everything, she took it all.  Three years later, I am struggling and she is doing great.  Everyone tells me to move on.  I just don’t know how to move on after divorce as a man.   … Read more

Can A Sniff Make You Fall In Love?

What makes people fall in love? There is love at first site, there is friendship that leads to love. It could be someone’s laugh, or their passion for what they do, or the way they are with their kids. It could be anything. But what about how a person smells? Can that cause you to … Read more

Loyalty Outweighs Infidelity In Ray Donovan Marriage

If you are a fan of the hit Showtime series, Ray Donovan, than you’ll appreciate this week’s Love Essentially, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer press, about the Donovan’s marriage, and how even through infidelity they find a way to stay together. Nothing Can Touch The Donovan’s-That Includes Infidelity  by Jackie Pilossoph for Chicago Tribune … Read more

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7 Reasons The Angelina Jolie Brad Pitt Divorce Isn’t That Surprising

The Angelina Jolie Brad Pitt divorce, also known as the end of Brangelina has people stunned, and I really don’t understand why. While I am a huge fan of the couple—because I love that they adopted kids and that they both engage in so many humanitarian projects, I am not really surprised that the marriage … Read more

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Stop Whining And Complaining And Just Enjoy The Rain!

Life can be hard. There’s no doubt about it. Everyone has problems every single day–large and small. But too much whining and complaining can make everything worse, including your love life. That is the subject of this week’s Love Essentially column, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press.   Complaining: The Fastest Way To Ruin … Read more

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The Anthony Weiner Sexting Scandal: What We Can Learn About Faithfulness and Addiction

What We Can Learn From The Anthony Weiner Sexting Scandal by Jackie Pilossoph for the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press “Strike three, you’re out!” isn’t something the Chicago Cubs are hearing much lately, but those words just hit Anthony Weiner, as the former New York congressman and mayoral hopeful recently got caught in his third sexting scandal, … Read more

Relationship Advice: What To Expect When you Expect Too Much

“Don’t expect anything and you’ll never be disappointed.” That was said to me by a friend a long, long time ago. At the time, I felt like she was being pessimistic and negative. I was very very wrong. Not only is this not a negative way of thinking, but it’s smart, and here is why. … Read more

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LinkedIn Stalking… Invasive or Understandable?

I got a call from a friend of mine, asking me for advice. My friend is a divorced dad, and his ex-wife is in a relationship with a guy who also has kids. So the other day, my friend went on LinkedIn to check him out. He has never met the guy, who is now … Read more

How To Talk To Your Teen About Dating, Love and Sex

In honor of this time of back to school, this week’s Love Essentially addresses how to talk to your teen about dating, love and sex. It’s not easy, but here are some great tips!   7 Tips For Talking To Your Teen About Their Love Life by Jackie Pilossoph for Chicago Tribune Media Group   … Read more