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Woman Thinking About Separating Joins Online Dating Site

Wait till you read this email from a woman thinking about separating. Together for 11 years, married for 10, 6 year old child. My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. And nobody told him he treats me like shit. It wasn’t all … Read more

A Cheating Spouse Doesn’t Automatically Mean Divorce

 A cheating spouse is a situation that is devastating to a marriage, and it changes everything. But while many people assume cheating automatically means you are headed to divorce court, there are so many couples whose relationship can survive cheating. I’ve heard a lot of people say things like, “If my spouse ever cheated on … Read more

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‘My Husband Has No Interest In Me Sexually.’ Should She Get Divorced?

From a reader: I have been married 10 years and I want a divorce. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I am leaving. We have been fighting for 4 years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, since my mom died. Mainly … Read more

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Divorced Woman Asks for Group Hug

I don’t know one divorced woman or man (or anyone on earth-divorced or not) who doesn’t have days or even longer times when things seem to be imploding in their worlds. In my own situation, I describe those periods of time as feeling like I’m in a dodge ball game, and the balls just keep … Read more

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Man Thinking About Separation: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Here is an email from a man thinking about separation from his wife. I truly feel for him because it really is a tormenting decision to have to make. Jackie,  I’m thinking about separation. A few months ago I found out my wife was cheating on me and now I’ve been left with the decision … Read more