Confronting A Cheater: 4 Different Reactions You Could Get

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February 20th, 2023 . Jackie Pilossoph

 Can you imagine how difficult it would be confronting a cheater? “Um, honey…(in that walking on eggshell tone), can I talk to you?” I've done it and let me tell you, it's brutal. It makes me angry to think that the person confronting the chea...

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I Was Cheated On: ‘He Looked In My Eyes And Lied”

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November 7th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Here are excerpts from an email I received from a single mom who writes, "I was cheated on." The woman dated this guy for 8 years. Seven months ago, she found out he cheated on her for the last year of their relationship, basically living two lives. ...

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Is My Husband Cheating? New Cologne And Underwear Indicate Yes

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November 13th, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: I'm wondering, 'Is my husband cheating?' In the last year, my husband has taken an interest in colognes and new underwear. And, his data on his cell phone shows crazy high usage. I have asked if he has a girlfriend and he has denied it...

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Is Recovering from an Emotional Affair Possible?

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June 6th, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

When someone finds out their spouse is cheating or cheated, it’s awful. I’ve personally been there—not in my marriage but in another relationship. It’s like you just got punched in the stomach, and you keep feeling like you are repeatedly get...

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The Two Biggest Obstacles In Forgiving A Cheater

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May 2nd, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

Readers email me frequently, asking for advice on what to do in coping with a cheating husband (or wife). Some of them want to try to work it out, while others are vehemently headed for divorce  court. But a lot of spouses are unsure, and their inde...

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