Here are are the bullet points of this reader’s situation: She was married for 20 years when she found out her husband had two affairs: first he cheated with a good friend of hers, then with one of their neighbors. She forgave him and thought they ...
It’s easy to judge someone for thinking 'I want a divorce' because of no sex in marriage. It sounds very trivial to some when someone says he or she is getting divorced because the marriage is sexless--as if sex is the most important thing to th...
As a rule, when people ask me, “Should I get divorced?” I try not to share whether I think they should or should not, and instead give my insight into their situation in hopes the answer comes to them. But in some cases, I just can’t help answe...
Several years ago, when I began thinking about divorce, not only was I scared, angry, confused and heartbroken, but I also felt intensely overwhelmed when it came to understanding the divorce process, how things work, legal documents, and the court...
I get many, many emails from readers who tell me their stories and then asking, "Should I get divorced?" I usually have a pretty good gut feeling on whether or not I think the situation still has hope, and sadly, most of the time, I don’t think so....
