My Ex Has A New Girlfriend After A Month and I’m In A Tailspin


February 5th, 2020 . Wendy Sterling

Being newly separated is never easy. But what happens when one of the people gets into a new relationship right away? It kills the other person. Here is what's going on with one DGS reader, who writes, "My ex has a new girlfriend after a month." I...

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Is Drinking Wine Every Night During Divorce A Bad Thing?


February 1st, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

I thought it was important to write about an issue that is oftentimes brushed under the rug, but extremely important, especially during divorce. I’m talking about drinking wine every night to soothe anxiety about divorce and just relax. I did it. ...

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7 Suggestions In Finding Yourself After Divorce


January 23rd, 2020 . Jennifer Joy Butler

So many of us invest our entire selves into our roles in life. Whether that is being a mother, a wife, a homeowner, etc., we find that these identities define us and we rely on them to feel a sense of purpose and importance. Our sense of self gets so...

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My Ex Is Lying During Divorce, Telling People I’m Mentally Ill


January 17th, 2020 . Lisa Kaplin

Going through a divorce definitely has its challenges. We all know that. But what happens when during divorce, one person starts spreading lies about the other? Here is one reader's story. During her divorce, her ex is actually telling people she is ...

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Your Mortgage And Divorce: 4 Reasons To Refinance ASAP


January 13th, 2020 . Jeremy Woods

When two people get divorced, a few different things could happen regarding the marital home. One person might stay in the home while the other either rents or buys a new place. Or, the couple sells their home and each decides whether to rent or buy ...

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