Starting Over After Divorce At 40 And Rebuilding Your Life


August 1st, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: How do I rebuild my life after divorce? I've sunken into a deep depression and feel scared about starting over after divorce at 40. I've been with my husband for over 13 years and I found out that this is the third time he has cheat...

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11 Things Divorced People Want To Say To Our Married Friends


July 29th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Before I got divorced, I had no idea what I would experience, and what life after divorce would look like. So, that being said, divorced people should remember that all of our married friends have no clue about what it’s like going through a divor...

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Experiencing Second Divorce Shame? Keep These 4 Things in Mind


July 23rd, 2022 . Patricia Van Haren

Divorce is hard. Anyone who has ever gone through one will tell you that. But what happens when you get divorced, fall in love again, and then find yourself going through another divorce? Many clients tell me that second divorce is just as hard as a ...

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Naked And Terrified: Why There’s No Need To Fear Sex After Divorce


July 14th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Let's talk about sex after divorce. I know this woman who has been divorced for a couple of years and recently began dating. She is in her 50's and has two children. The first date she had was a flop-no attraction on either side. The second guy sh...

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Divorce Advice for Fear: One of the Hardest Emotions to Overcome


July 11th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

There are so many feelings that come with being newly separated and going through a divorce: shock, guilt, devastation, sadness, anxiety, anger, jealousy, bitterness and…one of the worst—FEAR. Fear is a very powerful emotion that can cause a l...

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