When Your Wife Walks Out On You And You Blame Yourself


October 12th, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

What do you do when your wife walks out on you? That's the question of this reader, whose wife left and who is blaming himself: I have only myself to blame. I could have done so many things different to make her happy. She begged me to change but ...

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Being Friends With Your Ex: Is It Possible And How Do You Get There?


October 10th, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

Most people I know who are first getting divorced can’t stand their ex-husbands and/or ex-wives. They either have this deep hatred for the person, or they roll their eyes at the mention of his or her name, or they just feel pity for the person. It ...

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12 Things I Wish I Knew When I was Getting Divorced


October 7th, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

I'd walk around on the verge of tears all day long, every day. I felt really scared. I felt sad. I felt angry. I felt like a failure. I felt worried about my young kids. And, I felt very very alone. I'm referring to a time in my life 11 years ago, wh...

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Facing Divorce? Here Is Some Sisterly Advice For Those In Need


October 4th, 2019 . Jackie Pilossoph

Facing divorce isn't easy. This is an article I wrote for my sorority sisters. It’s been over 30 years since I attended an Alpha Chi candlelight ceremony for a mystery sister who was either getting lavaliered, pinned, or engaged, but I can still...

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Healing After A Breakup Means Facing Your Pain Head On


September 28th, 2019 . Jennifer Joy Butler

Healing after a breakup takes time. It isn't easy. BUT, there is one thing that will prolong your sadness, and might even keep you sad forever. Let me explain... HAVE YOU EVER LOST SOMEONE YOU LOVE? Someone who touched you at the core of your being...

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