My Ex Is Lying During Divorce, Telling People I’m Mentally Ill


January 17th, 2020 . Lisa Kaplin

Going through a divorce definitely has its challenges. We all know that. But what happens when during divorce, one person starts spreading lies about the other? Here is one reader's story. During her divorce, her ex is actually telling people she is ...

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Your Mortgage And Divorce: 4 Reasons To Refinance ASAP


January 13th, 2020 . Jeremy Woods

When two people get divorced, a few different things could happen regarding the marital home. One person might stay in the home while the other either rents or buys a new place. Or, the couple sells their home and each decides whether to rent or buy ...

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“My Ex Got Engaged. I Feel Like I’ve Been Pushed Off a Cliff”


January 11th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

This is from a divorced woman whose ex got engaged: I’ve been divorced for 3 years and I found out today my ex got engaged. He called to let me know, and I felt that physical pain, that stab in your heart. I pretended to be happy for him. I shou...

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What Happens After Divorce Papers are Filed?


January 8th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Divorced Girl Smiling received an email from a guy basically saying, “I got served divorce papers! Now what?!” So, I thought I'd write about what happens after divorce papers are filed. My first piece of advice for what happens after divorce p...

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Advice For Going Back To Work After 10 Years


January 5th, 2020 . Gretchen Hydo

From a reader: What happens when you get divorced and because of finances, you have to go back to work? I have 3 young kids and am going back to work after 10 years. I don't know what I am qualified to do now, what I want to do, or who would want me....

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