Tips and advice for men and women who have recently split up from a spouse and are now getting divorced.
Happiness after divorce seems almost unimaginable while you’re going through one. It’s like you just can’t picture it. “What’s my life going to be like when the divorce is final and when all of this is settled? How am I going to move on after divorce? The answers to these questions are difficult because all … Read more
What does equitable distribution mean in a divorce? You and your spouse have likely accumulated property and other assets during your marriage. Now that the marriage is coming to an end, you’ll have to divide the property as part of the divorce settlement. North Carolina uses the law of equitable distribution when dividing property. What … Read more
We all know that divorce, especially high conflict divorce, can be devastating. Some men and women are so traumatized, that it takes them years to recover from divorce. Really high conflict divorces have even been known to cause post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Yet, while some men and women struggle to survive, others thrive. Instead … Read more
In my day-to-day life, I deal with people going through a divorce, who are perhaps at their lowest point in life. I feel their shock, sadness, hopelessness, fear, and stress. The worst possible things I could do when talking to these women are: judge them, not listen to them, not validate them, and the worst … Read more
Going through a divorce comes with more than enough emotional weight—and when it comes time to sell the shared home, the last thing anyone wants is added stress. But here’s the truth: with the right approach, selling a house in divorce doesn’t have to be overwhelming—and it can be more profitable than you think. If … Read more
This article comes from the bottom of my heart. Being newly separated or newly divorced can play a huge role when it comes to self-confidence. Going through a divorce can cause even someone with normally great self-esteem to have self-doubt and insecurities. The good news is, the lack of self-confidence is temporary a lot of … Read more
Divorce is rarely simple, but when significant assets and wealth enter the equation, the complexity increases exponentially. High net worth divorce comes with unique challenges, and wealth preservation becomes a key focus for individuals going through this difficult phase. Learn more about the critical considerations to keep in mind when navigating a high net worth … Read more
It’s spring, which is the perfect time for spring cleaning! But spring cleaning post divorce doesn’t just mean decluttering your home, it means getting all the clutter out of your mind. Both physical and emotional clutter can weigh us down and leave us feeling stuck and uninspired. If you want to lift your spirits and … Read more
You don’t have to tell me. I know how much you love and care about your dog. Divorce is beyond difficult, and when you add in pet custody, it can get a lot more complicated, painful and emotional. That said, have conversations about pet custody are a must. They are so important because the outcome … Read more
In my practice, I find that most of the time, divorcing parents are able to come up with a custody schedule that works for their situation. In fact, there is even flexibility in the arrangement when necessary. If Mom has to work or Dad has to go out of town, both find a way to … Read more
Women going through a divorce are under an extreme amount of pressure and stress. Emotions, which can include anger, sadness, fear and resentment can run high, and worrying about the kids can feel like a full time job! Because women are so preoccupied with all of these stressful factors, they might make money mistakes during … Read more
The first time meeting with a divorce lawyer can feel stressful. In my 34 years of practicing law, I can say that when I meet a client for the first time, though each situation is unique, the client is almost always feeling common emotions. These can include: sadness, anger, fear, and of course, confusion. There … Read more
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