How Long Should You Wait to Date After a Divorce?


July 20th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

How long should you wait to date after a divorce? When I first got separated, it bothered me when people tried to give me advice about dating after divorce. I felt like saying, "I'm the only person who has the right to determine how long I should wai...

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Do You Have a Fear of Vulnerability? Here’s Why You Shouldn’t


July 5th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

When someone goes through a divorce or a long term relationship breakup, one of the many hard things about it is the feeling of insecurity because you are losing someone to whom you showed incredible vulnerability. Which...might cause you to have a f...

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The First Breakup After Divorce Hurts More Than The Divorce


July 2nd, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Divorce is devastating. For everyone who goes through it. But there's something that I think might be even worse: the first breakup after divorce. What I mean is, when you get into your first serious relationship after the divorce and it ends. That's...

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Confronting A Cheater: 3 Different Reactions You Could Get


June 20th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

 I can’t even imagine how difficult it would be confronting a cheater. “Um, honey…(in that walking on eggshell tone), can I talk to you?” Brutal!   Unfortunately, I have heard countless stories from both men and women who have con...

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My Thoughts on Dating During Coronavirus


May 9th, 2020 . Amy Lee Kite

I want to share my thoughts on dating during Coronavirus. If you’re a writer or a reader, then you likely know of Gabriel Garcia Márquez’ masterpiece: Love in the Time of Cholera. When that book was published in the mid 80s, I was in my early te...

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