divorce and kids

Divorce and Kids: 10 Things They Might Be Thinking

Going through a divorce is a painful, stressful and scary time. But it’s not just parents who feel those difficult emotions. Kids are affected, too. When it comes to divorce and kids, people often say, “Kids are resilient,” and while there is truth to that statement, that doesn’t mean kids don’t need help and support … Read more

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10 Reasons The Mediation Process is a Great Option In Divorce

My clients frequently tell me they feel their lives start to go out of control when they are separating and contemplating divorce. Feeling in control of a situation is important for people.  Popular movies like “The War of the Roses” and “Kramer vs. Kramer” famously depict divorce as a battleground where each partner struggles to survive. … Read more

what is a wife entitled to in a divorce

How Much is a Wife Entitled To in a Divorce?

A question I get asked a lot by newly separated women is: “How much is a wife entitled to in a divorce? This is a valid question and I can understand the urgency of wanting to know, given the fear and anxiety of the uncertainty of your future. Not to mention, the answer to this … Read more

how to help children through divorce

How to Help Children Through Divorce: 6 Best Practices

Divorce is a trying experience for adults.  With children, divorce can be devastating if it is not handled well by the parents.  Couples pursuing the dissolution of their marriage always want to know how to help children through divorce. From my perspective as an attorney, there are some actions that can be taken to ensure … Read more

how much does a divorce cost

How Much Does a Divorce Cost? 8 Factors to Consider

During my initial consultation with a client, there is one question he or she almost always asks: How much does a divorce cost? It’s a very difficult question to answer because there are so many factors involved in a divorce case, and those factors are what dictates the cost.   Here are 8 factors that … Read more

what can be used against you in a divorce

What Can Be Used Against You in a Divorce?

As a divorce attorney of 17 years, I have seen how emotionally challenging divorce can be. The stress of not knowing what your post-divorce life is going to look like is scary and unnerving. Clients often ask me, “What can be used against you in a divorce?’ I’ve had clients tell me they feel like … Read more

intentionally delaying divorce

3 Possible Reasons for Intentionally Delaying Divorce

Once a couple is fully committed to getting divorced, most clients want the divorce to be final as soon as possible. Since they know there’s no turning back, they want to move on with their life, and having the divorce behind them is a giant step. But I have had cases in which one or … Read more

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What is Collaborative Divorce and Why Should You Consider It?

There are a few different divorce processes to consider if you are getting divorced. They include: sitting down with your ex and coming to an agreement on custody, financials, assets and more, going to a divorce mediator to mediate your divorce, getting attorneys and going through litigation, and finally, one of the best ways to … Read more

who gets the dog in a divorce

Who Gets the Dog in a Divorce?

I’m a dog lover. I have two dogs named Simba and Sierra. They are very special to me, and I can’t imagine my life without them. That’s why it’s heartbreaking to me when divorcing clients ask me this question: Who gets the dog in a divorce?   The answer to the question is complicated because … Read more

can you go back to court after a divorce is final

Can You Go Back to Court after a Divorce is Final?

Can you go back to court after a divorce is final? Absolutely. As a divorce attorney, I understand that things change. The parenting plan, finances, and life situations may look different years after the divorce is final, hence the need to possibly call your attorney and discuss going back to court, returning to collaborative process, … Read more

7 reasons for divorce

7 Reasons for Divorce: Each Unique but All Painful

It may not surprise you to learn that one of the most searched questions online about divorce pertains to the reasons for divorce.  I imagine that is because divorce can feel confusing, and oftentimes, it’s hard to pinpoint why exactly a person might feel ending the marriage is his or her best option. As a … Read more

considering a divorce in the new year

Considering a Divorce in the New Year?

For many couples, the arrival of a new year is accompanied by feelings of hope, fresh starts, new goals and more.  For some couples, the new year doesn’t bring fresh, good feelings. During the previous year (2021) as the Covid-19 pandemic continued to be a worldwide reality, the stresses on a marriage were many. Many … Read more