How To Move On After Divorce As A Woman–Not A Wife


March 26th, 2020 . Lisa Kaplin

Many people wonder how to move on after divorce as a woman. What I mean by that is, perhaps a woman's life was defined as being a wife. That was her identity. Now she feels lost. This reader is in that situation: I’m struggling with a lot of con...

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What A Windy Day and My Young Son Taught Me About Fear of Change


March 20th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

Fear of change is one of the biggest characteristics of  divorce. It doesn't matter whether your spouse left you or you left him, change is scary. Even if deep in your heart you know the marriage can't work any longer, change is scary. And even if y...

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My Husband Left Me: I Don’t Know How I’ll Ever Recover


May 10th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

I promised to love, honor and cherish him forever & I didn’t break a promise. I would do anything for my life to rewind 4 months & for this to not be happening. I don’t understand nor can I believe that this is my life now; that my husban...

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My Husband Left Me For Another Woman. Guess What? He’s Not Blissful


January 18th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

Several years ago, I got a call from one of my girlfriends. Through tears, she said, "My husband left me for another woman." It was horrible. I could not have felt worse for her. She had been happily married (or so she thought) for over two decade...

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Divorce At Christmas Causes Mom To Want To Stay In Bed


December 28th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

Divorce at Christmas and other holidays is tough for anyone. Family traditions are gone, loneliness is magnified, the pressure to have fun is felt, and watching the kids is gut-wrenching.  Read this divorced mom's story about divorce at Christmas...

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