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Mistakes That Impact Mortgage Qualification During Divorce

There are almost always mistakes made, in either or both, the drafting and/or the execution of the separation agreement when it comes to complying with mortgage guidelines. This can impact your the mortgage qualification process. I would step out on a limb and say that this happens in well over half of the divorces finalized. … Read more

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The Benefits of Lipstick and My Lipstick Experiment

What are the benefits of lipstick? The idea for this article began when I was buying a pair of earrings in Bloomingdales. The cheerful woman who rang me up looked absolutely beautiful. She didn’t look fake, she wasn’t skinny, and she didn’t look like one of those bone-thin models. Her appeal was that she glowed. … Read more

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How Practicing Gratitude Can Make a Big Difference in Your Divorce

Divorce is one of the most difficult times in a person’s life. I know finding things to be thankful for is probably the last thing you feel like doing but take it from me: Practicing gratitude is one of the most effective coping strategies you can develop– it’s free, takes little time, and can make … Read more

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My Ex is Dating my Friend! How to Handle it and How to NOT Go Insane

There are a few different instances that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out my ex was dating my friend.  I have since come to realize that “My ex is dating my friend” is not so uncommon. … Read more

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15 Reasons Single Men Over 40 Prefer Dating Women Their Age

If you are a woman dating over 40, it can seem really scary in the sense that you might think single men over 40 only want to date younger women. Well, guess what? I interviewed 5 single men over 40, asking them about dating, and what aged women they prefer. Guess what they all said? … Read more

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8 Pieces of Advice For Those Dating Someone New

Dating someone new is the best! It’s a blissful, fairytale-like time that is meant to be enjoyed. All that said, let’s be honest, there is so much infatuation going on that the couple can’t see a single fault in the other person. In other words, each has ongoing beer goggles for at least the first … Read more

Understanding a Temporary Restraining Order in Divorce

In times of personal crisis, legal measures like temporary restraining orders in divorce (TROs) can provide much-needed protection and relief. If you’re in San Diego and facing a situation where you believe your safety or the safety of your loved ones is at risk, it’s crucial to understand what a temporary restraining order in divorce … Read more

4 Benefits of Using an Alcohol Monitoring System

Navigating the complexities of custody and alcohol-related cases in the wake of a divorce can be challenging, especially since child safety is aways a top priority. An alcohol monitoring system can play a crucial role in these scenarios, providing an essential tool to safeguard and improve the well-being of children, as well as empowering both … Read more

How to Love and Love Yourself on Valentine’s Day

Is it really already time for Valentine’s Day? This holiday has never really been my thing, but every year as the store aisles transition from Christmas decorations to red hearts and stuffed animals (so cliche!), I do feel a twinge of nostalgia. So after my divorce, I chose a shift in perspective that I carry through … Read more