Get comfortable being uncomfortable. That is one of the most valuable nuggets I’ve heard, and one that gave me the courage and inspired me to love myself and get out of a toxic marriage. Here is my story. I was so excited to be in my first real committed relationship at the age of 23. … Read more
One of my least favorite words is petty, and being petty really bothers me. Sometimes I catch myself being petty, and all it does is make me feel badly about myself. When I see others acting petty, it bothers me a lot. Being petty in divorce happens a lot. I see it. According to The … Read more
Does it matter who files for divorce first? This is an important question, as the decision to initiate the divorce proceedings can influence various aspects of the legal process, including jurisdiction and preliminary court orders. Understanding these implications can help you navigate divorce more effectively, ensuring that you are prepared for the steps that follow. … Read more
Divorce changes many things—including how we define home. Maybe the house you shared no longer feels like yours. Maybe you’re starting fresh in a new space, filled with possibility but also uncertainty. Wherever you are in the journey, one of the most powerful things you can do is make your house a home. In other … Read more
There are many heartbreaks that happen during a divorce. The first heartbreak occurs during that gut-wrenching moment you know you are getting divorced: either you both realize the best option for you as a couple is to split, or your ex blindsides you with a conversation that starts with, “Honey, we need to talk,” and … Read more
There’s a prevalent misconception that only men are obligated to pay spousal support in divorce–also known as alimony. However, in today’s ever-evolving landscape of gender roles, both professionally and domestically, the truth is that women paying alimony is becoming more and more common. This legal obligation is determined by various factors, emphasizing the importance of … Read more
What exactly is a high conflict divorce? Some people describe it as a battle, a stressful time filled with anger, resentment and hate, a time when kids are put in the middle and see the ugliness of their parents fighting, both in court and at home. Believe it or not, only about 8-15% of … Read more
What does it take to be happy in a romantic relationship? Although every couple is unique, I think some of the biggies are: Friendship, trust, thoughtfulness, and attraction. But there’s one thing that is perhaps the most needed, and it’s the thing that is needed to have all of the other components to stay happy … Read more
When you’re facing divorce, it feels like a million things are hitting you all at once. Legal papers you don’t understand, money questions that keep you up at night, emotional conversations that leave you drained. It’s no wonder you feel overwhelmed and stuck in reaction mode. But here’s what most women don’t realize: Divorce isn’t … Read more
Divorce stress and anxiety is to be expected. But things can get a lot more stressful if you are dealing with a challenging co-parent. Balancing the responsibilities of raising a child with another person, who may have different parenting styles and perspectives isn’t easy. Here is what one woman going through a divorce wrote to … Read more
Happiness after divorce seems almost unimaginable while you’re going through one. It’s like you just can’t picture it. “What’s my life going to be like when the divorce is final and when all of this is settled? How am I going to move on after divorce? The answers to these questions are difficult because all … Read more
What does equitable distribution mean in a divorce? You and your spouse have likely accumulated property and other assets during your marriage. Now that the marriage is coming to an end, you’ll have to divide the property as part of the divorce settlement. North Carolina uses the law of equitable distribution when dividing property. What … Read more
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