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How to be Independent in Life after Divorce

For many people, one of the scariest things about getting divorced is having to be much more independent. For example, I have a friend who moved right from her parent’s house into the home she shared with her husband for 30 years until they got divorced. I remember when she was going through her divorce, … Read more

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Why Isn’t My House Selling?

In today’s shifting market, the question of “Why isn’t my house selling?” is becoming increasingly common—especially in divorce cases. What used to be a predictable process is now full of friction and frustration. We’re seeing it more frequently: properties that linger on the market far longer than expected. And when a home doesn’t sell, it … Read more

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Divorced Parents Paying for College: How Does it Work?

Divorce and College.  Two words that are both equally hard to manage on their own without much research, guidance and support.  But what happens when you are divorced or getting divorced and at the same time, your children are approaching or even already in their college years? The combination can feel overwhelming. In this article, … Read more

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Retirement Accounts, Pension Plans and Divorce

When it comes to retirement accounts, pension plans and divorce, things can become extremely complex. Oftentimes, complications can lead to details getting overlooked in a divorce settlement. While it is easy to focus on more immediate concerns like the marital home or child custody, failing to properly divide retirement assets, including pensions, can have serious … Read more

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Is Drinking Wine Every Night During Divorce A Bad Thing?

I thought it was important to write about an issue that is oftentimes brushed under the rug, but extremely important, especially during divorce. I’m talking about drinking wine every night to soothe anxiety about divorce and just relax. I’m not judging because I did it. When I was first separated, I began drinking wine a … Read more

Divorce is Devastating. My Story

Divorce is devastating. It is a destructive process that can harm the mental, emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual parts of both parents and children. I would know. I went through a divorce several years ago. I wish I could say it was not my fault, but that would be a lie. I was responsible for … Read more

30 Questions About Divorce and Our Answers

Do you have questions about divorce? If you are considering divorce, or have already started the process, you probably have a lot! How long will the process take? How is child custody determined? How will our property be divided? In this article, we answer the most common questions about divorce and family law matters. The … Read more

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Are you Divorcing? 21 Things You Shouldn’t Give a F*** About

While I was divorcing several years ago, life felt like a roller coaster for awhile. At the beginning, when I was first separated, most days seemed like a mix of chaos, sadness, anger and anxiety. Between my young  children, attorney’s fees, financial concerns, feeling alone and very lonely, and walking on eggshells in between terrible … Read more

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Reclaiming Your Financial Identity During and After Divorce

When we think about divorce, we often think about the split—of assets, of homes, of parenting time. What’s less talked about is something deeper, more personal, and arguably more important: the unraveling and rebuilding of your financial identity. Divorce isn’t just the end of a marriage. It’s also a financial reset, a unique and powerful opportunity … Read more

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The Importance of Your Will and Trust After Divorce

After your divorce is finalized one more legal step needs to be taken: your will and trust after divorce. Newly divorced women (and men) should have their wills, trusts, and powers of attorney rewritten.  The new documents should reflect your new life.  You will want to provide for your children while ensuring that your ex … Read more

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Loneliness and Substance Abuse and How it Can Affect Co-Parenting

Navigating the choppy waters of co-parenting is challenging under the best circumstances. But when coupled with feelings of loneliness, the pressures can magnify, increasing the risk of substance abuse and addiction. This delicate dynamic of loneliness and substance abuse is not just a personal struggle but often a silent one, hidden behind the daily routines … Read more

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Selling Your Wedding Ring After Divorce? Here’s what 34 Women Did with the Money

Thinking of selling your wedding ring after divorce, but not sure where to sell it, when to sell it, or how to sell it? Many people think a divorced woman should either sell your ring or put it in a jewelry box and let it just sit there. But those aren’t the only options! For … Read more