Getting Divorced? Advice for “I Can’t”


December 6th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

When getting divorced, men and women often think 'I can't,' meaning, 'I can't take this anymore, I can't deal with him (or her), I can't handle this pressure, I can't coparent with him (or her), I can't get over my anger and I can't date ever again....

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The Unsolicited Attack: It Can Happen While Going Through A Divorce


November 21st, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

When a couple is going through a divorce, they are typically not on the best of terms. The couple’s relationship is probably at its all time worst—worse than during the end of the marriage. Couples often show their worst selves during a divorc...

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The Newly Separated Get Unexpected Gifts


November 15th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

A newly separated man posted this comment: Wait until you’re divorced and you meet someone who makes you feel desired.  OMG.  You realize just how terrible it’s been.  Mine, we had it once a week, then two, then once a month, finally it got...

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One Word That Will Lead You To Finding Peace After Divorce


November 8th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

Ask someone why he or she got divorced, and typically you'll get one of these kinds of answers: My husband left me. My wife cheated. My husband’s an asshole. My wife’s a bitch. We grew apart. We were really unhappy. We neve...

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What If Your Husband Left You For Another Man?


October 27th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

I get many, many emails from women who reach out because of the intense pain they are feeling when their husband leaves them for another woman. Among other emotions, they tell me they are in shock, devastated, angry, scared, resentful, bitter, and be...

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