Advice for “I Hate Online Dating:” Guess What? You Don’t Have to Do It!


May 17th, 2021 . Wendy Sterling

From a DGS Facebook group page member: I really would love to be in a new relationship but I hate online dating. I am just not cut out for it. My heart gets ripped out way too easily and I can't deal with the ghosting. I really want to learn to b...

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Regretting a Breakup? Advice for Second Thoughts and Doubts


May 5th, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

If I had to bet, I would say there has never been a breakup in the history of serious relationships and/or marriages, in which the couple didn’t get back together at least one time before they got divorced. In other words, I believe that breakups i...

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The Two Biggest Obstacles In Forgiving A Cheater


May 2nd, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

Readers email me frequently, asking for advice on what to do in coping with a cheating husband (or wife). Some of them want to try to work it out, while others are vehemently headed for divorce  court. But a lot of spouses are unsure, and their inde...

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Dating After Marriage: 5 People You DON’T Want to Date


April 29th, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

Most people I know have a love hate relationship when it comes to dating after marriage. Dating after divorce is fun and exciting and sexy if you're on a date with someone you really like. Dating stinks if you're sitting there smiling and counting th...

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First Date Tips: Good And Bad Topics of Conversation


April 17th, 2021 . Jackie Pilossoph

Although they can be hopeful, exciting and fun, let's be honest, first dates can consist of massive moments of awkward silence. For example, feeling like you have food between your teeth, wondering if he is noticing your nervousness, regretting your ...

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