15 Questions Men Have About Women And My Answers


April 12th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Last week, I called my friend to tell him I was going to be a few minutes late for our meeting because I wanted to squeeze in a manicure."Why do women get their nails done?" he asked. "I never understood that." That's when it hit me. Sometimes, men j...

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How Long Should You Casually Date Someone? Let’s Talk.


March 30th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

A Divorced Girl Smiling reader wrote this: I am recently divorced and not sure I want to get into another relationship right away, but don’t want to sleep around either. Is casual dating without sex even possible? And, how long should you casually ...

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What Are “The Rules” When You Start Dating Again After Divorce?


March 15th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

This was posted on a the DGS group Facebook page: When you start dating again after divorce, what are the rules? I have no idea what the new normal is!   Her question made me think. Remember the self-help book “The Rules?” Officially ...

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I’m Having An Affair: Really? How’s That Working Out For You?


February 20th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

I get a lot of emails from readers who write, "I'm having an affair." They either want to confess because they feel guilty, and/or they want to know if it's going to work out and if so, how. I try not to judge people having affairs because every s...

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An Honest Look at opposite-sex friendships: 6 Things To Think About


February 11th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Opposite-sex friendships got big attention in the 1989 Nora Ephron romantic comedy “When Harry Met Sally,” one of my all-time favorite movies about a man and woman (played by Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan) who develop a meaningful platonic friendshi...

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