One Word That Will Prevent You From Getting Over A Divorce


February 8th, 2020 . Jackie Pilossoph

Getting over a divorce isn't easy. I know that firsthand. But there's one word that really, really, really slows down the process of moving on: Regret.   "He wouldn't have cheated if I was a better wife." "I never should have taken that ...

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Divorce Advice: Here’s What Happens When You Move On Too Fast


January 2nd, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

  This reader is seeking divorce advice: I have been divorced for two years (no kids), and I have since gotten remarried to an amazing lady and we have a child together.  You would think all of the emotion would be gone regarding my first...

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How Do You Move On After Divorce As A Man? Admit, Accept and Appreciate


October 3rd, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a divorced guy: I just don't know anymore.  Everything I had worked to build for over twenty years--retirements, my house, everything, she took it all.  Three years later, I am struggling and she is doing great.  Everyone tells me to move o...

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A Huge Factor in Moving On After Divorce


September 29th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

When two people get divorced, both hopefully spend some time reflecting on the mistakes they made, which I believe is really healthy in the healing process, and crucial in moving on after divorce.  I'll even go so far as to say that people who don't...

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Two Words You Should Never Say While Getting Divorced


September 27th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

There are two words I think a person should try to avoid while getting divorced: What if. What if I would didn't give up? What if I'd given him/her one more chance? What if I'd never done blah blah blah? What if I would have given it six more months?...

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