As a divorced woman, you’ve probably learned how to keep moving — even when everything around you feels like it’s falling apart. You’re strong, capable, and resourceful — but you’re also human. You need a divorce community. Here’s something we’ve seen again and again: even the most resilient women can’t rebuild their lives in isolation. … Read more
Deciding to divorce is a big decision. Once it has been made, proper preparation is, like with so many things in life, a key to a positive outcome for you and your family. And, yet, because it can be such an emotional decision, many people do not develop a plan for successfully moving through the … Read more
Wondering how to apologize to your partner? Saying I’m sorry isn’t something a lot of people know how to do. It’s difficult for many reasons, which is why so many people often don’t say it–even during times when an apology is much needed. Love means never having to say you’re sorry” might be one of … Read more
Many couples, eager to move forward in a divorce, choose to list their home as-is—often settling for a lower price just to get it sold quickly. But what if there were another way? A way to ease the stress, maximize your return, and set yourself up for a stronger financial fresh start? That’s where my … Read more
I wrote this article 3 years ago, when I was turning 57: What does a 57-year-old woman look like? She looks like moi. Me. How do I know? Because I am turning 57 this weekend, and because over the past two weeks my boyfriend has nicknamed me Heinz 57. You know, the steak sauce that’s … Read more
Coparenting with someone who hurt you—emotionally, mentally, or even physically—is one of the most difficult challenges that can arise from divorce. It requires strength, restraint, and a deep commitment to your children’s well-being, even when your own heart is still healing. As a partner at the nation’s largest family law firm, I’ve worked with countless … Read more
If you think about what a divorce really is, it’s two people splitting everything up and going their separate ways. That’s not an easy thing for most people for several reasons, one big one being fear of independence, and fear of living and being alone. But want the good news? Independence and living and being … Read more
Self-confidence tips for When Your Confidence Takes a Hit If have been impacted by divorce, chances are your confidence has taken a hit. You could be the most capable, accomplished person in the room, but when your marriage ends, self-doubt often sneaks in. You may wonder: Who’s going to want me now? Am I strong … Read more
I think there are a lot of men and women out there who have divorce regret. Some might not admit it to themselves or to anyone else, others tell everyone they know that they regret getting divorced. I feel for people who have divorce regret. They wish they could turn back time. The divorce regret … Read more
Your parents were right: Life’s not fair! They probably said that to you since you were young, and way before you could even imagine how much those words meant while getting divorced! When life doesn’t seem fair, especially in your divorce, it can cause all sorts of unpleasant side effects. The Good, the Bad, and … Read more
I’d walk around on the verge of tears all day long, every day. I felt really scared. I felt sad. I felt angry. I felt like a failure. I felt worried about my young children. And, I felt very very alone. I’m referring to a time in my life several years ago, when I was … Read more
Marriages don’t collapse overnight. They erode through patterns—small choices, unspoken resentments, and unaddressed wounds. When a relationship falters, the instinct to point fingers is almost automatic. But what if the path to healing, or even a healthier separation, begins with owning your part without drowning in blame? Having healthy boundaries, especially when facing the pain … Read more
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