In my practice, I find that most of the time, divorcing parents are able to come up with a custody schedule that works for their situation. In fact, there is even flexibility in the arrangement when necessary. If Mom has to work or Dad has to go out of town, both find a way to … Read more
When I was 49 years old, I ended a six year relationship. Single again at 49 and dating again was really really scary, but I did it. Is dating after divorce at 50 easy? Um… How can I say this delicately? HELL NO. That said, there are many many benefits to dating after divorce at … Read more
Women going through a divorce are under an extreme amount of pressure and stress. Emotions, which can include anger, sadness, fear and resentment can run high, and worrying about the kids can feel like a full time job! Because women are so preoccupied with all of these stressful factors, they might make money mistakes during … Read more
The first time meeting with a divorce lawyer can feel stressful. In my 34 years of practicing law, I can say that when I meet a client for the first time, though each situation is unique, the client is almost always feeling common emotions. These can include: sadness, anger, fear, and of course, confusion. There … Read more
A couple things have happened to me lately in which people around me are stirring up drama. Let me explain, and then I’ll tell you why I think they are doing it, and why in your divorce, your ex might be doing it. The first stirring up of drama has to do with our parking … Read more
Despite the initial appeal, revenge affairs are ultimately a more difficult path. The saying ‘Hurt people, hurt people’ is a common theme in literature and music for a reason. The desire to make someone who has caused you immense pain to understand your suffering can be overwhelming and may seem like the only path to … Read more
During my entire career of being a divorce attorney, I’ve seen a lot when it comes to my clients. I’ve seen emotion that breaks my heart, kind gestures between parties that is inspiring, and yes, even love and friendship between a couple getting divorced. That said, I’ve also seen clients and opposing clients at their … Read more
“What the hell?” a divorced woman asked on the Divorced Girl Smiling Facebook group page. “Is he not interested anymore or just busy?” Here is her story in a nutshell and my advice on why she shouldn’t be asking “What the hell?” but rather facing the truth: no one’s too busy when it comes to … Read more
I’m a divorce mediator, which means I often work with couples who wish to be amicable and to sustain and enhance their ability to co-parent their children. On the other end of the divorce spectrum is something that is heartbreaking, full of pain, terribly selfish and so harmful: alienation of a child from a parent. … Read more
Divorce ranks among life’s most challenging transitions, impacting not only parents but also the kids who are deeply affected by the shifts in their family dynamics. For parents, managing their own emotional journey while simultaneously supporting their children’s needs can feel overwhelming. But there’s an anchor that might surprise you: a professional nanny. Let’s talk … Read more
Wondering what to do with your wedding dress after divorce? Don’t want to stumble upon it every time you go into your closet or storage room because seeing that white lace dress just brings back too much raw pain and emotion? I get it. I felt that way for a long time after I got … Read more
Divorce is about change, and change pertaining to divorce is about loss. Even when that change is positive and for the best, you are leaving something behind. There is loss. Grieving is key to healing and moving on. Divorce grief is complicated and very necessary. Something that was once important and valuable, something and someone … Read more
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