My husband drinks too much (or my wife drinks too much.) Believe it or not, this is a commonly searched phrase, indicating that there are so many women (and men) who have this concern. Add an impending divorce into the mix and the spouse who is worried about excessive alcohol use and/or drinking and driving with the kids can become even more stressed and fearful.
If you’re navigating divorce or co-parenting challenges, and alcohol misuse is part of the conversation, you deserve clarity and peace of mind. Whether you’re concerned about your co-parent’s drinking or trying to show you’re committed to sobriety, there’s truly only one way to to document the truth in a reliably way: an alcohol monitoring device.
Soberlink is an alcohol monitoring device that families use to support safe parenting time and to document sobriety in a way that is structured, consistent, and easy to understand. The data can also be shared with attorneys or used in court proceedings when needed.
How is Soberlink Used in Divorce?
Soberlink offers a way to document alcohol use or sobriety during parenting time or all the time (depending on which system you prefer). If one parent is being monitored, the other parent can receive updates through the secure system.
The results provide more than just data. They offer peace of mind that children are being cared for in a safe, alcohol-free environment. They also give the monitored parent a chance to demonstrate responsibility and consistency.
In some cases, Soberlink has been used to disprove false accusations of alcohol misuse. A pattern of consistent, compliant results can help restore trust and support custody arrangements that are in the best interest of the child.
What is a Soberlink Device?
Soberlink is a handheld breathalyzer that measures a person’s blood alcohol content (BAC). Facial recognition ensures that only the monitored parent can complete the test, providing accurate identity verification with every result.
Once a test is completed, results are instantly sent to authorized contacts through a secure portal. Reports are displayed in a visual calendar format using simple icons, making it easy to see when tests were taken and whether they were compliant.
The system is also cleared by the FDA for medical use. In addition to family law and addiction recovery, Soberlink has been used in workplace compliance and other settings where accountability matters.
How Does Soberlink Work?
Soberlink helps people prove their sobriety by prompting them to take tests at scheduled times each day. Each test is quick and discreet, designed to fit naturally into a person’s daily routine. The handheld device uses advanced fuel-cell technology to measure BAC with a high level of accuracy.
Once the test is completed, the results are automatically sent through a secure wireless connection. Authorized recipients—such as a co-parent, concerned family member, or legal representative—can view results in real-time through their web-based dashboard. This level of transparency can reduce stress, improve communication, and provide reassurance during parenting time transitions.
The system is built with thoughtful safeguards to ensure reliable results. Because it can detect even small traces of alcohol from common products like mouthwash or hand sanitizer, the device is programmed to prompt a retest every 15 minutes if alcohol is detected. This gives the monitored person a chance to clear up any potential false positives and helps confirm whether alcohol was actually consumed.
The retesting process continues until a compliant result is recorded or a series of six tests has been completed. This automatic follow-up feature helps avoid misunderstandings and supports accurate, fair monitoring. By combining sensitive technology with structured retesting, Soberlink offers a dependable way for families to stay informed and feel confident about their children’s safety.
What Are Soberlink’s Advantages for Family Law Situations?
Soberlink was built to encourage accountability, not punishment. The system supports families who are navigating custody challenges involving alcohol by offering a structured, supportive solution. These features make Soberlink a trusted tool for parents and loved ones during high-stress transitions:
- Facial recognition that confirms identity and prevents tampering
- Portable design and easy-to-use process that fits into daily routines
- Scheduled testing that builds accountability through consistency
- Real-time results that can reduce the need for supervised visitation
- Signed monitoring agreements that ensure both parents understand expectations
- Clear, calendar-based reporting that’s easy to read and legally recognized
- Oversight from a professional compliance team available to answer questions
- Certified records that can be used in court if needed
- Testimony available upon request for legal proceedings
- Support from trained representatives who help families get set up and stay informed
There are two monitoring plans available, depending on how often testing is needed. Whether you’re concerned about your co-parent’s drinking or want to document your own sobriety, Soberlink offers a reliable and flexible solution.
Soberlink Level 1 – Parenting Time Only
This plan offers flexible testing during custody or visitation. The testing times are set based on parenting schedules, allowing both parents to agree on the timing that works best for them. This option is helpful when the need for monitoring is limited to time spent with the children.
Learn more about Soberlink Level 1.
Soberlink Level 2 – Daily Testing
For situations that call for more frequent testing, this plan includes scheduled tests up to four times a day. Clients receive reminders by text and are prompted to test consistently throughout the week. Daily testing may be appropriate during early recovery or when additional oversight is necessary.
Learn more about Soberlink Level 2.
My Husband Drinks too much (or my wife drinks too much) and I’m worried about the kids
In closing, it’s a terribly uneasy feeling if you suspect your soon-to-ex is drinking around the kids and/or they are in danger. It’s also frustrating if you are a sober parent who is being accused of drinking excessively around the kids.
Soberlink is on a mission to take away fear and anxiety, and to ensure the safety of both parents and children. Ask your attorney or mediator about Soberlink. The goal is that our device changes your co-parenting situation, and gives everyone in the family a happier, healthier life.
