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Mediation and Negotiation: 10 Tips for Success

So, you have an upcoming divorce mediation session. Are you ready to negotiate? Divorce mediation is a collaborative process, but it is absolutely still a negotiation where you will need to advocate for your own needs and objectives. Mediation and negotiation happen simultaneously. You and your spouse have differing interests or needs and will work … Read more

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Divorce and Friendships: It’s Complicated.

Going through a divorce is probably one of the most stressful times you’ll ever go through in your life. It’s a good thing you have your girlfriends there to support you! Or do you? When it comes to divorce and friendships, maybe not. Things can get really complicated. I can remember at the beginning of … Read more

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Second Marriage After 50: Topics to Discuss

A member posted this message on the DGS Facebook Group page, regarding second marriage after 50: What topics should you make sure you and a partner discuss before you consider a second marriage after 50? I’ve read articles but they all address a first marriage when you’re young. I’d like topics to make sure we … Read more

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Understanding the Difference Between a Life Coach and Therapist

In an era where mental health and personal development are paramount, both coaching and therapy have emerged as vital resources for individuals seeking growth, support, and transformation. Despite their overlapping goals of improving well-being, the difference between a life coach and therapist is significant. Divorce/life coaching and therapy are distinct practices with unique methodologies, objectives, … Read more

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20 Things I Wish I Could Have Told My Newly Separated Self

As I look back on myself as a newly separated 41 year-old–feeling scared and sad and angry and hopeless and lonely,  I realize now how utterly lost I was. Those first several months going through a divorce with two young children were painful and difficult. Every day it felt like there was a new problem. … Read more

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10 Labors that Make Celebrating Labor Day a Must

My birthday falls on Labor Day weekend (or right before or right after), which is a good thing for me, since so much of the time, it’s on the weekend or on the holiday, so while everyone is celebrating Labor Day, I usually celebrate “my birthday weekend.” I get pretty emotional around my birthday, so … Read more

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What Do Divorce Attorneys Do and What DON’T They Do?

Divorce is often a complex, emotionally charged process. When couples decide to part ways, a divorce attorney becomes a crucial ally in navigating the legal intricacies involved. But what do divorce attorneys do exactly? I can’t speak for all divorce attorneys, but here are 7 things I do as a divorce attorney, and that I’d … Read more

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Divorce and Children: How to Answer Those Tough Questions They Ask

When it comes to divorce and children, there is nothing more gut-wrenchingly sad than when your child, wide-eyed and hopeful, asks you this question: “Are you and dad ever going to get back together?” These and other divorce questions from kids can feel like a punch in the stomach, causing anxiety, guilt and sorrow. There … Read more

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Stepparent Adoption in Texas: Your Guide

Thinking about adopting your stepchild? This noble gesture will not only cement the deep bond between you and your stepchild, but it will provide lifelong stability and security to a principal member of the family unit. In some cases, stepparent adoption in Texas can be complicated, but with the right preparation and guidance, you can … Read more

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Difficult, Disrespectful and Toxic: How To Coparent With This Person

Divorce is never easy, and when children are involved, the complexities multiply. At DearDivorceCoach.com, we understand the myriad of challenges parents face when navigating co-parenting, and we focus how to coparent. We are also very aware of those situations in which coparenting can get extremely difficult when an ex spouse is disrespectful and toxic. That’s … Read more

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8 Job Searching Tips for Moms Going Back to Work After Divorce

Going back to work after divorce can truly feel daunting for many reasons. I experienced it firsthand. With fears that can include technology, leaving the kids with a nanny or in daycare, the big lifestyle change, and not feeling like you are capable of finding a job, it’s a stressful thought. But, it doesn’t have … Read more

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Dealing With Emotionally Immature Adults in Divorce

As a Family Law Attorney and Mediator, I hear these comments from some clients when they are completely frustrated with their soon-to-be ex and coparent: “She’s crazy!”“He’s a narcissist!”“No one is listening to me!” The unfortunate reality in family law is that you have to deal with complex family dynamics that could stem from issues … Read more