Divorce Anger is Normal. Holding Onto It Is for Losers

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February 7th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

Two examples of divorce anger:   Example #1: She leaves him. His side: “I came home one day and my wife told me she didn’t want to be married anymore. I was completely shocked and upset. I can’t believe she would just turn on me lik...

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In-Laws and Divorce: Did your In-Laws Dump You After Divorce?

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February 7th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

I don’t think I have to tell anyone how emotionally difficult it is to get divorced. Putting all other issues aside, (finances, the kids, the legal bills, finding a new place to live, dating, etc. etc. I could go on and on), the bottom line is, you...

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Being Friends With Your Ex. Okay or No Way?

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February 7th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

                Most people I know absolutely can’t stand their ex-husbands and/or ex-wives. In my opinion, it seems almost cliché to hate your ex, like you have to, like society teaches us that if you can’t stand the person eno...

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Officially Divorced. Happy Occasion or Sad Moment?

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February 7th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

I got a text yesterday from a friend of mine: “Well, I’m officially divorced today. I feel strange but a little relieved. I’m good, though. I think I’m going to buy myself something expensive and not practical.” This girl feels TH...

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How Do You Handle Your Broken Heart?

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February 7th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

Everyone deals with a break up differently, but one thing’s almost always the same.  People going through break ups display odd behavior and  some do crazy things they’d never do otherwise.  Therapists actually have a name for erratic beha...

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