Category Archives: Getting Divorced

Ever thought about sitting down and writing a letter to your ex?  I'm not saying you have to send the letter, or even show it to anyone. I just think it could be  a very healthy and productive way to gain some clarity and inner peace when it comes ...

Divorce reflection comes at all different times. For me, certain memories took years to see and to process, while other things I remembered about my marriage were as clear as day, even from day one of getting separated. In other words, hindsight is 2...

I want to offer some advice on how to spend less money during and after a divorce. Here's reality: You and your ex are now living in separate homes, which means two rents or mortgages. All the utilities that used to be for one home are now for tw...

When people are going through a divorce, especially at the beginning, they are susceptible to addictions. This great piece of divorce advice was told to me by a well known therapist who specializes in addiction.   People going through a di...

I can give divorce advice all day long, sharing what I know based on my own experiences. What I CAN'T do is tell you what a divorced guy is thinking, what he wants, what he doesn't, what bugs the crap out of him, and what will make him fall in love w...