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Looking at the Bright Side of Divorce

When I was first going through my divorce, I just wanted to wake up from the nightmare that was my life and let out a really huge scream.  I didn’t want to eat, I couldn’t sleep.  Focus?  What was that?  Life as I knew it died.  And it was an excruciating death.  Then, I started … Read more

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What is Divorce Mediation? A Detailed Look into the Process

What is divorce mediation? I’m a divorce mediator, one who earned his CPA and who understands your finances, and more importantly one who has gone through his own divorce and who learned first-hand how important it is to be able to co-parent successfully after a divorce. Divorce mediation has so many benefits.  I often tell … Read more

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Happy Birthday to My Dad in Heaven

When it comes to parents, I hit the lottery. Although no childhood is perfect, I had the gift of both a mom and a dad who were loving, caring and supportive. My dad, Zack Pilossoph, who passed away in 2017, was an amazing person in business, in our community, to his friends, and of course, … Read more

Divorce is Devastating. My Story

Divorce is devastating. It is a destructive process that can harm the mental, emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual parts of both parents and children. I would know. I went through a divorce several years ago. I wish I could say it was not my fault, but that would be a lie. I was responsible for … Read more

16 Tips for Divorced Dads from a Divorced Dad

I’m a divorced dad.  This wasn’t something I ever expected or wanted, but it happened. So, I have some tips for divorced dads based on what I’ve learned since my divorce, several years ago. My kids mean everything to me.  I was an active and involved dad from day 1 with each of my children.  … Read more

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Why Mediation Works and Why Litigation Has So Many Pitfalls

To understand why mediation works, it’s important to understand what litigation means.  Litigation is a very formal, inefficient system that is designed to protect the parties through use of standard processes and experienced (and costly) lawyers who will navigate it for you. The reason litigation is so difficult is not the system, it’s the parties.  Parties who litigate … Read more

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What Women Are Attracted to: A Guy Who Makes Us Laugh

When I heard about a recent Stanford University study about what women are attracted to, and that revealed the fact that women are more attracted to men who make them laugh, I had to laugh. They had to do a study to figure that out? Isn’t it common knowledge? Yes, if men want to know … Read more