I don’t know one divorced woman or man (or anyone on earth-divorced or not) who doesn't have days or even longer times when things seem to be imploding in their worlds. In my own situation, I describe those periods of time as feeling like I’m ...
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Ugly Divorce? Feeling Pretty Is Important
I’m not sure I’ve ever met a person going through a divorce who didn’t describe it as “ugly.” Isn’t an ugly divorce sort of expected? I mean, we can all say we know this one couple getting divorced who are really amicable, who a...
The Day my Divorce Seemed Like a Teeny Tiny Problem
It probably appears from most of my posts that I have this easy, rosy, perfect life. Not true. Just because most of my articles are inspirational, hopeful and positive, that doesn’t mean I don’t have problems. Every divorced person has problems. ...
Dealing With the Pain of Divorce: Sometimes You Just Need to be Crazy
A reader sent me the following e-mail that I can’t resist sharing because it sparks a discussion about dealing with the pain of divorce, and how that pain, which can be gut-wrenching at times, can cause us to act crazy. The reader refers to the ...
How to be Happy After Divorce: A Simple Exercise that Might Help!
I wrote a blog post a couple of months ago called "How to get from Hopelessness to Happiness after Divorce," and it got probably the most views of any blog post I've written. Why? I think because separated or divorced men and women are always looking...