Starting Over After Divorce At 40 And Rebuilding Your Life


March 23rd, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: How do I rebuild my life after divorce? I've sunken into a deep depression and feel scared about starting over after divorce at 40. I've been with my husband for over 13 years and I found out that this is the third time he has cheat...

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Staying In Love: One Thing That Will Help


January 8th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

Staying in Love isn't easy, especially after years and years of being together. Something Bulls rookie, Bobby Portis said in an interview was inspiring, as it made me think of something couples can do to stay in love. Here is my Love Essentially colu...

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What Are Divorced Men Thinking? Playwright Tells You Through His Show


November 6th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

I have dated and become friends with many divorced men over the years, and I think I have a pretty good idea of some characteristics that a lot of them have.  Now, a new play is taking viewers inside the minds of divorced men. "Boys in the Bas...

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Is This Woman Selfish and Cruel for Wanting a Divorce?


July 22nd, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

Is wanting a divorce selfish and cruel? Here is an email from a reader who is being accused of being these things because she wants a divorce:  I have been married to my husband for 5 years. 3 of those years I spent deployed away from him. We met...

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Relationship Advice: A Key Word In Being Happy Together


July 9th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

All couples fight. That's a fact. But there is one word that separates those who can work out their conflicts versus those who end up with unresolved issues: Accountability. In this week's Love Essentially, published yesterday in Chicago Tribun...

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