Divorce Advice and “To Do” List for Soon-to-be Separated Woman


January 5th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

Read the e-mail I received from a woman who is about to become separated. More than just divorce advice, I decided to give her a “To Do” list. Hi Jackie, Today's been a rough day--my husband just told me (after 14 years of marriage) that he p...

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Thinking of Separating? Make Sure You Both Know What That Means


December 20th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

If you are thinking of separating, read this e-mail I received. I just learned that during our 3 month separation, my husband had several sexual encounters. I had been begging him to come back. We have 20 years together and 3 kids. He has a girlfr...

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‘My Husband Has No Interest In Me Sexually.’ Should She Get Divorced?


November 22nd, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: I have been married 10 years and I want a divorce. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I am leaving. We have been fighting for 4 years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, since my mom died. Ma...

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No Sugarcoated Relationship Advice Here, Just the Honest Truth


November 5th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

Read the e-mail I received below from a woman seeking relationship advice. I just found out that my ex (whom I still love and he tells me he still loves me) is having a baby with another woman. (DHS got involved which is why we are no longer toget...

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Is My Spouse an Alcoholic? Signs He or She Might Be


October 1st, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

Jackie, my husband of 11 years (and father of my two kids) has been drinking much more than he used to. In fact, he now drinks at least a 6 pack of beer every night, or sometimes a bottle of wine. I keep finding empty booze bottles around, and our tr...

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