Awhile ago, I wrote an article called 4 Things NOT to Say During Mediation. The article was extremely popular, so I thought I’d write part 2-- what NOT to say during mediation Here is What NOT to say during mediation, part 2 1. YOU wante...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
Thanksgiving after Divorce: It’s Going to be a Great Day!
I remember my first Thanksgiving after divorce 15 years ago. What a mess I was, visiting my family with my two toddlers, feeling sad, scared, embarrassed, angry and so many more emotions. I had gotten separated in August, so everything was still new,...
Divorce and the Holidays: Tips From a Mediator
Divorce and the holidays can get complicated and challenging for many reasons. Feelings of anger, resentment, and hurt can often run high on the emotions list for divorced and divorcing parents. Add in the pressure they may feel to make sure the ki...
What is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional?
What is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional? The job of a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) is to strategize with those going through a divorce so that they can qualify for a home loan whether remaining in the marital home or buying ...
My Ex Has a New Girlfriend: Tips on Co-Parenting and Coping
There's nothing easy about divorce, especially when children are involved. Even when couples choose mediation or restorative divorce to maintain healthy relationships, it can be challenging when one parent moves on to a new partner. I hear from so ma...