Emotional Hell When A Spouse Has An Emotional Affair?

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December 1st, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

When someone finds out their spouse is cheating or cheated, it’s awful. I’ve personally been there—not in my marriage but in another relationship. It’s like you just got punched in the stomach, and you keep feeling like you are repeatedly get...

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The Two Biggest Obstacles In Forgiving A Cheater

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November 4th, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

Readers email me frequently, asking for advice on what to do after a spouse cheats. Some of them want to try to work it out, while others are vehemently headed for divorce court. But a lot of spouses are unsure, and their indecision on whether they s...

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What Do You Do When Your Husband Cheated With Your BFF?

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August 10th, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

It's hard enough when you find out your husband cheated. But what if you found out your husband cheated with your best friend? I can't even imagine, and actually, it happens so much more often than people think. I sat down with therapist, Debra Alper...

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Is My Husband Cheating? New Cologne And Underwear Indicate Maybe

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December 16th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: I'm wondering, 'Is my husband cheating?' In the last year, my husband has taken an interest in colognes and new underwear. And, his data on his cell phone shows crazy high usage. I have asked if he has a girlfriend and he has denied it...

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Were You Cheated On? Advice for the Cheatee

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August 7th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the gut-wrenching feelings that come with finding out about it. In my Love Essentially column, just published in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press, I give 9 pieces of advice for the cheatee.   What to ...

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