characteristics of unhealthy relationships

10 Characteristics of Unhealthy Relationships

Marriage is one of life’s most rewarding partnerships, but even the strongest relationships can face challenges. As a divorce attorney , I’ve seen firsthand how certain patterns and mistakes can erode even the most loving marriages over time. The good news? Many of these pitfalls are preventable with awareness and effort. If you want to … Read more

how to find a good divorce lawyer

How to Find a Good Divorce Lawyer

Divorce can be one of the most stressful and emotionally draining experiences in life—and how to find a good divorce lawyer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during the process. The truth is, divorce attorneys are not one-size-fits-all. The right lawyer for your friend may not be the right lawyer for you. … Read more

deciding to divorce

Deciding to Divorce? 9 Signs It’s Time

Deciding to divorce might possibly be one of the hardest decisions of your life. Let’s face it. No one gets married expecting a divorce. But at some point, versus staying stuck in a toxic and/or unfulfilling marriage, divorce becomes the better option. How do you know when it’s time to say goodbye? No one can … Read more

top reasons for divorce

The Top Reasons for Divorce: Understanding Hard and Soft Reasons

Divorce is a deeply personal and often complex decision, influenced by a range of factors that can profoundly affect the lives of those involved. But what are the top reasons for divorce? To better understand why marriages end, it’s helpful to categorize the reasons for divorce into two broad groups: “hard” reasons and “soft” reasons. … Read more

questions to ask a divorce lawyer

10 Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer at Your First Meeting

The first time meeting with a divorce lawyer can feel stressful. In my 34 years of practicing law, I can say that when I meet a client for the first time, though each situation is unique, the client is almost always feeling common emotions. These can include: sadness, anger, fear, and of course, confusion. There … Read more

I love my husband but I don't like him

One Reason For Divorce: I Love My Husband But I Don’t Like Him

There are many reasons people get divorced, but for the purpose of this article, let’s exclude the biggie deal breakers: cheating, addiction, or verbal and physical abuse. What happens when someone decides to get divorced because they have a lack of like? What do I mean by that? I’m talking about the person who says, … Read more

Is my marriage over

Is My Marriage Over? The Quiet Signs it Might Be

I remember walking through my neighborhood one chilly afternoon, coffee in hand, sunglasses on even though the sun had dipped low. I was hoping no one would see the tears quietly slipping down my face. From the outside, I looked like a woman deep in thought. But inside, I was unraveling. ‘Is my marriage over?’ … Read more

staying in an unhappy marriage

11 Things People Say To Justify Staying In An Unhappy Marriage

Although every marriage and situation is unique, I think many people stay in their marriages because it seems like the best option. Maybe they weighed out the pluses and minuses of splitting up, and then determined that staying–even though they are staying in an unhappy marriage, is the better choice versus the alternative of divorce. … Read more

when is it time for a divorce

When Is It Time For a Divorce? What You Need To Know Before You Decide

Divorce is one of the most significant decisions you will ever make. It’s not just a legal process—it’s an emotional, financial, and psychological shift that will shape your future in profound ways. You might be wondering: when is it time for a divorce? This isn’t the easiest question to answer. You may feel overwhelmed, conflicted, … Read more

threatening divorce

What Can Happen When Someone is Threatening Divorce

Often times in relationships when communication and respect break down, one spouse might start threatening divorce as a way to show how serious they are about needing change in the relationship. This is a very dangerous threat that can often backfire. Divorce is not a word that should be used lightly. Here are the potential … Read more

is my spouse an alcoholic

Is My Spouse an Alcoholic? Signs He or She Might Be

Jackie, is my spouse an alcoholic? My husband of 11 years(and father of my two kids) has been drinking much more than he used to. In fact, he now drinks at least a 6 pack of beer every night, or sometimes a bottle of wine. I keep finding empty booze bottles around, and our trash … Read more

thinking divorce

Thinking Divorce? Here is a Checklist to Prepare

Thinking divorce? Knowledge is power. When you know what to expect before, during, and after divorce, you can better prepare for your future.  But divorce is an emotional and stressful experience. Equip yourself now with the information you need to make informed decisions – rather than emotional ones – to secure the financial and emotional … Read more