When two people get divorced, both hopefully spend some time reflecting on the mistakes they made, which I believe is really healthy in the healing process, and crucial in moving on after divorce. I'll even go so far as to say that people who don't...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
“I Slept With My Ex” 5 Reasons That’s A Really Bad Idea
Here is an email I received from a woman who wrote "I slept with my ex:" Had sex with my soon to be ex husband Saturday night. Our divorce is final Thursday. The divorce was his idea. Not mine. WTF?? Why do I hear about so many people goi...
Coping With Divorce: How to Turn “Our Place” into “My Place”
Of the many difficult aspects of coping with divorce (or the ending of a long-term relationship) are the places that the two of you went that were very special. Restaurants, bars, coffee houses, breakfast places, parks, museums, even vac...
Love Over 50: Love Never Felt So Good
You know that song, "Love Never felt so good?" by Michael Jackson and Justin Timberlake? That's what came to mind when I was just about to turn 50 and writing this article! I remember so clearly that love over 50 was amazing! Why? Because at the time...
Closure after a Breakup: “I Want a Sit Down With My Ex”
I need some advice for closure after a breakup. My husband and I are divorcing after 16 years of marriage. After our oldest son turned 1 the decision to stay at home to raise him while my husband rigorously pursued his dream of starting a company ...