Rules of Opposite Gender Friendships


February 5th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

Platonic friendships have always been important to me. I had many male friends when I was single, dating, married, and now divorced. But are there rules of opposite gender friendships? And how do they apply to people who are either in relationships o...

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Want some Dating Advice? Self-Acceptance and Self-Love Lead to Love


January 18th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

I have some really good dating advice and it's not what you think it's going to be. I'm not going to talk about how to meet people, how to choose, how to act, and what to do or not to do when it comes to dating.  I'm going to talk about self-...

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Having Sex after Divorce: Getting Naked Can be Really Scary!


December 13th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

Having sex after divorce is a scary thought for a lot of people. Think about it. You have slept in the same bed with the same man for what? 10 years? 20 years? 30 years? Now you are separated or divorced. Inevitably, you are going to start dating, an...

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Do You Have Post Divorce Commitment Phobia?


December 10th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

I bet if you asked all the divorced people on earth what they want as far as their romantic life moving forward, I bet you’d get a different answer from each and every one. It’s a little like right and left wing politics. There are those on one e...

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Dating a Coworker: Sexy & Fun if you Follow These Rules


December 5th, 2013 . Jackie Pilossoph

It's after 7pm. Everyone in the office has gone home for the day. All the lights are off except in your office where you sit at your desk meeting a deadline. All of a sudden, he appears in the doorway with a sexy smile. You are delighted to see him. ...

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