Angry About Divorce? We Understand


December 1st, 2020 . Debbie LeSean

Ever feel angry about divorce? Sure you do. Anger in a divorce  is completely normal, and part of the roller coaster ride of the divorce journey. Here's what one reader has to say about it: Today, I am rip roaring mad!!!!! I think it’s finally ...

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How Do You Handle Going To Work Every Day When Your Heart is Breaking?


October 18th, 2020 . Debbie LeSean

A reader asked this question: How do you handle going to work every day when your heart is breaking? Here's my advice: During my divorce, I remember times that I’d stay up all night, rethinking everything that went wrong in my marriage. I rep...

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How Do You Handle a Bullying Husband?


August 27th, 2020 . Debbie LeSean

“Why when he left me, does he treat me like crap? I don’t understand. He’s got what he wanted, he’s with her. I’m left to bring up our son alone and yet he is absolutely vicious to me. How do you handle a bullying husband? I’m being bulli...

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Advice for Divorced Woman who Writes: I’m Alone On My Birthday


June 29th, 2020 . Debbie LeSean

From a divorced woman seeking advice: My birthday is coming up and this is the first time I am alone on my birthday, in a new city with no close friends. Any idea on how I can celebrate on my own? First off, Happy Birthday! The older I get, the mo...

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A Solo Date Might Be Just What You Need During And After Divorce


February 10th, 2020 . Debbie LeSean

A DGS reader wrote this: Just went on my first solo date--went to see the movie Bombshell, which was pretty good. Man, why did I used to be so intimidated by enjoying things alone? It’s so peaceful.   First off, congratulations on your s...

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