silent divorce

Are You Going Through a Silent Divorce?

Are you walking around your house in silence or with little interaction with your partner? Do you feel disconnected, like roommates, or like you no longer know the person you’re married to? Most of us imagine divorce as loud shouting matches, slammed doors, maybe even dramatic courtroom battles. But the truth? Many relationships end long … Read more

revenge affairs

Revenge Affairs: Why People Have Them and Why It’s a Bad Idea

Despite the initial appeal, revenge affairs are ultimately a more difficult path. The saying ‘Hurt people, hurt people’ is a common theme in literature and music for a reason. The desire to make someone who has caused you immense pain to understand your suffering can be overwhelming and may seem like the only path to … Read more

Depression and Divorce: Which Came First?

There are so many reasons people get divorced, but they all boil down to the same concept: one or both are unhappy in the marriage. And, unhappiness can lead to depression. In this article, I want to address depression and divorce, as it is often hard to know which came first. In other words, is … Read more