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What state do you live in?
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Marital Status (check one)
Thinking about getting divorced. I would consider trying to save my marriage if I could. Recently separated but haven’t started the process. Going through a divorce. Almost divorced. Newly divorced. Divorced for at least 6 months. Going through a second divorce. Remarried. In a committed relationship. Just started dating. Ready to date but haven't dated anyone yet.
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What are your thoughts on dating?
I’m not ready to date. I need to work on myself before I start dating. Thinking about dating, but don’t know how to get started. I’m dating but it hasn’t been a good experience. I’m dating but not finding the right kind of people. I’m dating someone but I don’t know where it’s going. I don’t want to date. I’m exclusive with someone.
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Family (check all that apply)
We don’t have kids. We have kids. I am worried about my children’s emotional health right now. I’m worried that we won’t be able to coparent well. We have not been able to coparent well so far.
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Reason for the divorce (check all that apply)
Addiction. Emotional, physical and/or financial abuse. My spouse cheated. My spouse is the one who wants the divorce. I want the divorce, my spouse does not. I am the one who wants the divorce. Mutual separation. Other
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My emotional health (check all that apply)
I am already seeing a therapist. I already have a divorce coach. I feel like I need some emotional support. I am worried about my emotional health. I feel lost in the divorce process. I am very stressed about the divorce. I am heartbroken. I feel hopeless. I feel optimistic. I'm not sure I'm doing the right thing. I know I'm doing the right thing, but it still hurts.
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The marital home (check all that apply):
I want to stay in my home but not sure if I can afford to. I want to buy a new home. We are planning to sell the home and I plan to rent. My soon-to-be ex and I both want to stay in our home and can’t resolve what to do. We don’t own real estate together so it’s not an issue.
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How do you plan to get divorced? (check all that apply)
We are amicable and it won’t be hard to split up our assets and come to agreements on the house and custody. I am in a high conflict divorce and we will most likely end up in court. We are hoping to mediate our divorce. We want to explore the collaborative divorce process. I would like to better understand litigation, mediation and the collaborative process before deciding.
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Bank accounts and other financial assets: (check all that apply)
I handle the finances. My soon-to-be-ex handles the finances. We both handle the finances. I feel like I'm in the dark about the finances. He/she handles everything. I know exactly what we have. I know some things about our finances, but not everything. I am concerned that my ex is hiding or will hide money. Our net worth is under $500,000 - this includes equity in the home and all bank and financial accounts. (This information is completely confidential and will not be shared beyond this quiz) Our net worth is over $500,000 -this includes equity in the home and all bank and financial accounts. (This information is completely confidential and will not be shared beyond this quiz)
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Job status (check all that apply):
My spouse works, I don’t. I work, my spouse does not. We both work. I work part time. My spouse works part time. Neither my spouse or I are working right now. My spouse has his/her own business. I have my own business.
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Life insurance: (check all that apply)
We both have life insurance. My spouse has it but I don’t. I have it but my spouse does not. Neither of us have life insurance. I don't know if my spouse has life insurance.
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Estate planning: (check all that apply)
We each have a will and trust. My spouse has a will and trust, I do not. I have a will and trust, my spouse does not. Neither of us have a will and trust. I don't know if my husband and/or I have a will and estate plan.
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