Read the e-mail I received from a woman wondering how to start a separation. I felt like the best way to give her advice was to give her a "To-do list." Hi Jackie, Today's been a rough day--my husband just told me (after 14 years of marriage) tha...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
Do You Have a Fear of Vulnerability? Here’s Why You Shouldn’t
When someone goes through a divorce or a long term relationship breakup, one of the many hard things about it is the feeling of insecurity because you are losing someone to whom you showed incredible vulnerability. Which...might cause you to have a f...
What are the Emotional Benefits of Having a Dog after Divorce?
There are so many emotional benefits of having a dog, especially during or after divorce, and that's what I'd like to share in this article. Believe me when I tell you that I was never a dog person. I didn't dislike dogs, but other than ...
The Hardest Part About Getting a Divorce: Lack of Control
There are many, many heartbreaking and difficult aspects of getting a divorce. There is shock, sadness, fear of change, loneliness, frustration, the feeling of failure, anger resentment, and so much more. But there is one thing that I believe might b...
I Feel Hopeless. How to Get to Happy After Divorce
Shock, fear, anxiety, depression, anger, frustration and bitterness are all difficult but common feelings during divorce. Then there's hopelessness; those times when you feel like you've hit rock bottom, nothing will ever get better, and things will ...