How Do You Stop Being Angry about Divorce?


December 6th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Anger during divorce is completely normal and understandable.  I think it is healthy to live those emotions--to feel them. Actually, I think it's unhealthy if a person getting divorced doesn't have anger. Most people who have been through a divorce ...

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Is He Not Interested Anymore Or Just Busy? Sweetie, Let’s Talk


December 4th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

“What the hell?” a divorced woman asked on the Divorced Girl Smiling Facebook group page. "Is he not interested anymore or just busy?" Here is her story in a nutshell and my advice on why she shouldn’t be asking “What the hell?” but rather ...

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Surviving Loneliness After Divorce: It’s Up to You


November 28th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Loneliness might be the most painful emotion a person can have. It can feel empty and scary and sad and unfair. Being lonely can make a person feel sorry for him or herself. It can make a person feel angry, like "Why me?" It can make someone feel unw...

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I Miss My Ex So Much! 9 Things You Can Do


November 25th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

You know the divorce makes sense. Things haven't been right for a long time. Maybe he hurt you. Maybe he's not a good person. Everything in your core is telling you being apart is the best thing. Yet, still, there's a little part of you from time to ...

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Thanksgiving after Divorce: It’s Going to be a Great Day!


November 22nd, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

I remember my first Thanksgiving after divorce 15 years ago. What a mess I was, visiting my family with my two toddlers, feeling sad, scared, embarrassed, angry and so many more emotions. I had gotten separated in August, so everything was still new,...

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