Category Archives: Getting Divorced

The pain you experience when a marriage disintegrates can be stunning. It can come after years of fighting the knowledge that your marriage is over or it can come in a flash, when a spouse tells you they are done. You feel shock. You feel grief. You...

For some reason, right now I know a few different people who are recently broken up and telling me "I can't get over my ex." I have certainly been there, and so has every  person who has ever gone through a divorce or been through a breakup. &nbs...

Can a therapist be a mediator? You bet! Being both a Licensed Clinical Therapist as well as a Certified Divorce Mediator has allowed me to understand and highlight the importance of several qualities which are necessary in both professional roles. Wh...

Divorce is tough. I know because I went through one. Whether you wanted the divorce or your spouse left you, it's devastating, painful and stressful. When you’re in the middle of divorce and sometimes even for the next few months or more, it can fe...

I write so many articles for people going through a divorce; newly separated men and women who are just trying to navigate the process and get the best outcome possible. Their thought process is usually (and understandably) short-term—just trying ...