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People going through a divorce do stupid things. It’s not a cut down and I’m not trying to be hurtful, it’s just reality. Trust me, when I was newly separated, I did more stupid things than anyone I know. Why the stupid things? Because going through a divorce is extremel...

Don’t you feel like when you get divorced, there are two camps, and most people feel like they need to be in one? There are a few people who try to stay neutral, but then it's just awkward, and let's be honest, you can tell whose side they're on.   With the camps com...

When someone tells me they are going through "an amicable" divorce, I think it's great, but I also tend to feel a little bit skeptical. While I'd like to think it's possible to have a friendly divorce versus an ugly divorce, I have a hard time believing it will stay that way, jus...

Do people get divorced and never look back? Some do. But I think most divorced men and women spend weeks, months, years, and even decades in some cases, rehashing things that happened in their marriage, looking back and second guessing decisions they made before, during and after...

One of the many very difficult aspects of being newly separated or divorced is dealing with parenting time, child custody agreements, and not being able to see your kids every day. I can remember crying hysterically the first night my kids slept out of the house. Just 3 and 5 bac...