The Two Biggest Obstacles In Forgiving A Cheater

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November 4th, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

Readers email me frequently, asking for advice on what to do after a spouse cheats. Some of them want to try to work it out, while others are vehemently headed for divorce court. But a lot of spouses are unsure, and their indecision on whether they s...

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Advice For: “We’re Getting Divorced Because My Husband No Longer Wants Children”

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October 23rd, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

When two people decide they want to get married, I think most discuss whether or not they are on the same page for many, many major life decisions. This includes whether or not to have kids and maybe even how many. But what happens when you get marri...

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Why “He Just Doesn’t Make Me Happy” Is An Unhealthy Thought

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October 20th, 2018 . Lisa Kaplin

Have you ever heard this saying, “Happy wife, happy life?” Or, “It’s my job to make my husband happy?” Or, “He just doesn’t make me happy?” I so often hear people talking about being responsible for someone else’s happiness or holdi...

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Alcohol Addiction And Divorce Often Go Hand In Hand

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August 21st, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

 I remember hearing awhile back that alcohol addiction was the number one cause of divorce. I don't know if that's true, but if it is, I wouldn't be surprised. Alcohol addiction and divorce go hand in hand if the addict doesn't get help. Read this r...

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He Cheated, She Feels Guilty For Leaving. Seriously?!

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April 12th, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

Here are are the bullet points of this reader’s situation: She was married for 20 years when she found out her husband had two affairs: first he cheated with a good friend of hers, then with one of their neighbors. She forgave him and thought they ...

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