There are many reasons for divorce, but if you ask someone why he or she is getting divorced, here are some answers you might get: 1. My husband cheated on me. 2. I came home one day and found my wife in bed with some guy. 3. My wife doesn’t l...
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My Ex Moved On And It Hurts. Of Course it Does.
From a reader: I need some advice. My ex moved on and it hurts. When he was in denial going through our divorce, we still spoke a lot. He promised that he'd always be there for me-- "you'll see, whether we're together or not, I'll be there.” He bou...
Betrayal And Disgust: The Ex Is Dating A Woman 15 Years Younger
I’m having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that my husband is dating a woman 15 years younger (my kids told me about her) after 11 years of marriage and just a few months of separation. He’s 41 with 2 young kids — it just feels ...
Representing Yourself In Family Court: Should You Do It?
A woman who was trying to save money in her divorce was shocked when she talked to a divorce lawyer. “This is crazy!” she said. “The divorce lawyer wants a $5,000 retainer fee - and that’s just the start! He won’t even tell me how much I’...
Going To A Wedding Alone While Going Through A Divorce
From a Divorced Girl Smiling reader: Talk to me about going to a wedding alone post separation/divorce. Mine is still fresh as can be - he told me 6 weeks ago and just moved out 3 weeks ago. Like, the invite I got today was still addressed to both ...