Category Archives: Getting Divorced

I want to offer some advice on how to spend less money during and after a divorce. Here's reality: You and your ex are now living in separate homes, which means two rents or mortgages. All the utilities that used to be for one home are now for tw...

It's a phrase we've all probably heard over and over again our whole lives: Don't drink and drive. Well, I want to tell you, that phrase is particularly important to say to those getting divorced! When people are going through a divorce, especiall...

From the minute a spouse says, “I want a divorce,” (or they say it to their spouse), life completely changes, and I'm not going to sugarcoat it, it's really really hard. Speaking from my experience, the first year is the hardest, and then things ...

When divorced parents interact, they typically act like this: cold, impersonal, cordial, angry and/or annoyed. At least at the beginning of the divorce. We all have to hope that as time goes by, divorced parents can be genuine friends. I want to s...

Being in this business for over a decade, I have heard my share of  divorce stories. Most of them make me want to cry, or they make me angry, or scared for someone, or just depressed. Some divorce stories are shocking or horrifying. There are rare e...