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Seven Divorce Stories

Written by Jackie Pilossoph. Posted in dating after divorce

Everyone has a story. Let me be more specific. Everyone who is divorced has a story. If you ask the husband, he has his version, and if you ask the wife, she’ll tell you hers.  I’m sure you have lots of divorce stories if you are on this site!

No divorce story is pretty, but there are rare exceptions. Some divorce stories are really, really sad, some are infuriating, and some are horrifically shocking. But, there are some with happy endings, and some that are inspiring and hopeful.  Here are 7 divorce stories, all that will spark different emotions in you.

In my true “Divorced Girl Smiling” nature, I believe you have to chuckle at some of these stories, so, if your jaw isn’t on the ground, feel free to laugh at some of them. Trust me, it will make you feel better!

  1. “The teenage daughter from hell:”  I know this woman who had been dating a divorced guy with two kids, one of whom was a 16 year old girl for 6 months.  The guy decided he wanted his daughter to meet this woman, who was the love of his life. So, they go out for dinner, and in the first 15 minutes, they start talking about possibly taking a vacation. The girl turns to her dad and says, “I’m not going on f***ing vacation with your f***ing girlfriend! I think I would have started crying!! But, the woman didn’t. After they dropped off the daughter, she turned to the guy and said, “Well, that went really well.”

2. “The Second Wedding:” A guy leaves his wife of 25 years for a younger woman, who he gets engaged to the minute their divorce is final. They have a quiet wedding, and then decide to have a huge reception, inviting a lot of the mutual friends he had with his first wife. One of the first wife’s best friends (who gets together with the woman ALL the time, and who has just been at her house for dinner a few nights before) goes to the reception and doesn’t tell the friend. Is that backstabbing or what?? Not judging, just judging.

3. “The Funeral:” This is so sad. A guy cheats on his wife with another woman and they get married. The first wife remains close with the guy’s parents. Very close. She talks to them on the phone, she sends holiday cards and pictures of the kids, and when the mom becomes ill, she visits her in the hospital a lot. The mom passes away, and the ex-husband forbids her to come to the funeral. His reasoning is because they are in heavy litigation and it isn’t appropriate.The day of the funeral, the woman was so sad, and she actually felt guilty that she wasn’t there. These are the kinds of stories that make me want to throw up.

4. “I Owe You a Phone Call:” This woman gets set up on a blind date with some guy. They go out for dinner and when they go to say good night, the woman slips him her cheek for the kiss. Clearly, there is no attraction or love connection. He calls her a few days later, and she thinks, ‘Well, he really was nice. Maybe I should give him another chance.’ So, she calls him back and leaves a message. Mind you, she is returning HIS call. A few days later, she runs into him at a bar. She is with girlfriends, he is on a date. He walks up to her, and very loudly says, “I owe you a phone call!” She is horrified, and feels like saying, “No, you don’t! I was calling YOU back!” Sounds like a Seinfeld episode, huh?

5. “Can’t Let it Go:” A woman has been divorced for 40 years. The husband is remarried to the woman he left her for, and they live in Florida. One Christmas, they have to be in Chicago for the week of Christmas (for some reason, I don’t know) but they have no plans for Christmas Day. The kids ask their mother if the couple can come to their house and join them, so they won’t have to be alone on Christmas. The mother goes into a rage, ranting and screaming about how she won’t spend Christmas with the guy. Seriously? You’re that selfish that you can’t think of your kids, and you are still holding a grudge after 4 decades??

6. “Happily Ever After:” A woman got divorced several years ago, and had a young child at the time. Fast forward 10 years. The woman falls madly in love with a guy who has never had kids or been married. They date for a few years, and decide to get married. Her child, who is now 11 LOVES the guy, who doesn’t try to be his dad, just a mentor and friend. They get married and they have baby. If you saw the pictures, and if you knew how great this guy and this kid get along, you would agree that this is the epitome of happily ever after!!

7. “Devastated Divorcee becomes Divorce Author and Blogger:” A woman finds herself divorced with two young kids. She hasn’t worked in 10 years and feels worthless and insecure. She wants to crawl into bed and stay there forever. She starts writing to make herself feel better. Eight months later, she finishes a novel about divorce that inspires her to keep writing. She writes and writes like she is a faucet, unable to stop the thoughts from coming. She gets a publishing contract, writes more books and starts a blog. She gets a job as a newspaper reporter. Her much needed outlet has turned into a full time career. She’s me. I turned something awful into a life that brings me so much joy, through helping others, entertaining them, giving advice and knowledge, and of course, making them smile.

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Jackie Pilossoph

Divorced Girl Smiling is a blog dedicated to helping men and women see divorce in a hopeful, inspirational way, with a little humor added to keep them smiling!

Comments (4)

  • Patty Wolf

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    O.K. one of these sounds WAY too familiar. :) . Love reading you blog girlfriend!!

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  • Donna

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    I’ve been thinking about #5 for a week now. I have to say that I see the woman’s point. If she has been divorced for nearly 40 years, the “kids” aren’t kids. Maybe there are really bad holiday memories. The “kids” should make arrangements to otherwise occupy their father and stepmother.

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  • Jackie Pilossoph

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    I sort of see your point. That said, I don’t care how old the kids are, holidays (and pretty much everything else) should be all about the kids. These “adults” wanted to share the holidays with BOTH their parents. It’s not their fault taht their parents are divorced. Couldn’t the woman just bite the bullet for her kids for once? I sure as heck would.

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  • Karen

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    Kids (even adult ones) don’t ask for something just once in a 40 year period. They’ve either been asking for something like that for 40 years and not understanding the reasons behind her saying no, or she’s “bitten the bullet” before, and it’s set a precedent that she didn’t want.

    Kids don’t always understand why parents divorce. As a little kid, I was afraid my parents would. As an adult, I wish they had. The abuse my mother suffered because she didn’t leave my father was not worth it for me to have an ‘intact’ household (and yes, she’s told me that was her deciding factor in staying). I’m getting married myself in six weeks, and although they are still married (it’s complicated… Dad’s in a nursing home and it would be a bad idea financially to get a divorce at this point, cutting my mother’s income to poverty levels), my mother is coming, but my father hasn’t been informed, let alone invited.

    Anyway, my point is: There are some things that not even 40 years is enough to forgive. And no one should have to ‘bite the bullet’ because someone else has been watching too many Lifetime Christmas movies and envisioning the perfect family christmas.

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